I saw a post in facebook a while ago. A post by one of my so called friends against an institution to which we both are stuck. The word "stuck" often has a different meaning for people and can affirm repent for some whereas rejoice for the other with a completely different perspective. Relinquishing life with that word would never be on the wishlist of any but the dark side always chooses to have a larger sum. It would be worthless to mention that this post is an issue about the dark side but it mught just be fruitful to highlight that this won't be a word against anything, yet it might object about the most terrible feature of mankind, FAULTFINDER.
Yup, the feature reads "faultfinder". The general thesaurus used by me for official purpose put forward a numerous options to select upon a proper word for somebody who complains which included troublemaker, fusser, faultfinder..... and so on. But the most apt word to me was "CRYBABY". Lets say that it describes that quality the best.
Life is a long journey and there is a huge mountain to climb until we reach the peak. Choice, thoughts, views, maturity, belief, emotions..... influences us in determining what we are gonna be tomorrow. But is it not true that these factors influence us all and yet you might have come across a classroom from the past which has produced a doctor and at the same time a group-D clerk! Is it not that an Albert Einstein differs from some Bill Gates, yet considered as the greatest pioneers of all time which our mother Earth has ever produced! What made them differ from the others, yet achieve the peak of success when others were still hoping to get a glance of the mighty sky?
It sounds a bit complex when thinking about "being stuck" and "why gates became a billionaire" at the same time but has a very distinctive and a very well-knitted answer.
When we talk about sustenance and survival, the first thought that strikes us is none other than, "The most fittest and finest will survive, others will perish". It remains the most significant statement about any civilization and is the ultimate funda of this article. Einstein never crossed school properly and ran away in fear of history and yet continues to be the one who gave one of the most important theories of all time! A Bill Gates did everything to ensure that he could quit Harvard and do something more and so we know about a Microsoft today. A guy named Steve Jobs created a company for making personal computers in order to compete with IBM(he considered them to be his biggest enemy), when he had nothing as such and yet laid forward an art which still leads the market as the most innovative technological organization and calls it Apple. They were different but they were similar in one way, that is they never lead a stereotype life and more of all they never complained or rather they had nothing to complain about as they built their own empire depending upon themselves. If they were axed, it was always because of something they did rather than being a chicken because of some other guy's fault.
The ultimate objective was always to lead their own life rather than following orders or being dependent on others. Jobs was fired by a person whom he himself brought in and yet he was not stuck with his situation of being another common man and continued with other objectives of being in the right flank. The main objective was to stick around with his life and he did it in style. He was stuck with a situation and yet continued to fight.
We might be in any sort of situation and under a lot of pressure but we should never bow down to it. The moment we do it, the very moment we start depending on others and that very moment we start complaining. But we should never forget that a baby is spoon fed only when it is young and never to expect such favour for a lifetime and that too from others. Because none can be YOU while getting a thing done. Blaming is nothing but an excuse and that is the only reason that ensures a failure and then one is doomed forever. Being stuck is rather pleasing when we do those things by ourselves and complete it successfully and it is beyond doubt that the above mentioned names have felt the same too.
The post by my friend was nothing but another blame which covers his failure. But by diving in and exploring the depth, one might find the author of this post who has a different story to tell about the same where he has been recruited by two best companies in the world with full scholarship for masters program from one of the best colleges in the world. He dreamt about the best, planned for the worst and trusted none but himself and that made the difference. Well, to dig it further, we have an ex-roommate of my friend from his previous institution, who at present happens to study in Kharagpur IIT and is one of the top notch students there. They both stepped on the same ladder with the same external pulls but they seem to have landed in distant grounds after a time period of 5 years. This article is not about boasting about miracles done by Steve Jobs, Bill Gates or Einstein but to profound the true nature of Darwin's Theory for existence and the last two being normal, and having a much lesser intelligence than the three above mentioned greats have shown that being a complaint box doesn't solve our problems but makes them worse.
Success knows no bounds and at the same time accepts no excuse!
You may browse upon the above link for describing such people like my friend, but I still believe that mine remains the most accepted one and no other words can be as apt as a "CRYBABY".
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