It takes courage to make decisions but to execute them in reality, it takes a hell of a confidence and mental strength. Leading a life with honour yet being born among thorns has a different measure of respect involved for it and here is a woman who has earned it from the society.
Life of a man is tough and involves all kinds of risks. He is supposed to be responsible, hardworking, gentle,.................and so on. But what we often don't recognize is the importance of a woman in that life, the real value of her. The cobwebs of life often can trap us but its the touch of a woman which never allows a man to get messed in the darkness, yet its also the same touch of a woman which can ruin him. If a man is physically gifted to uplift pressure then its just worthless to say that a woman is born with mental stability, rather it should be concluded that women are a gift of God for men in this pressure cooker kind of world.
It started 23 years from now for her. The newly married bride had left her father's house on the proposal of her boyfriend then and it was a new beginning. All she had heard was,"Come with me." and her immediate verdict was to step out of the house without even looking back. She knew that the road to happiness was full of darkness but she never stopped after that, and in that struggle, life seems to have given her lot more than what she ever anticipated. She loved him and that love has never changed from either side which even marks as the example of a perfect pair among her relatives.
When she recalls about those old times, she has a typical smile on her face which makes those incidents look more tragic. She had spent sleepless nights because of family problems, problems which belonged to her husband. She wept at night and fought with the odds in the daytime yet never gave up. Neither did she complain nor did she made anybody realize her pain. Her options were wide open and she could have left the battlefield whenever she desired but she continued. She fought and is still fighting now. She could have run back to her parents but she never even thought about it.
She could stand everything but could never did stand her husband being under pressure. Neither did she leave him alone when he was affected by any thought nor did she allow it to settle down with time, rather she tried her level best every time to get the ugly thought off him and never stopped until it was completely gone. She often claims that she is lucky to have a husband who supports her and is a cooperative man but truth lies with the fact that the man has been lucky to have her which he even admits with pride. He had also spent horrified days in his workplace being lost in the thoughts about his wife's well being when he was out for work and she was left alone.
The odds have weakened and scenarios have altered but she never changed. The girl who didn't even wait for her mother's response before leaving her house is now a mother herself. Responsibilities have been reduced though as the young kid is out of the house for studies and she now finds an empty residence after 8 each day but its no more a matter of concern for her husband. A telly to watch and handful neighbours are often enough to help the time pass by. She has earned respect among her closed ones in the long run and her views matter the most even for the elders. She is tired but she never shows that. She has spent 23 years of immense pressure but still holds the courage to fight another 23 years in order to keep things in order for her family. Not all woman can live and cherish the life of a woman. She did. She is the one with all the 7 colours of a rainbow, she is the one who has it all and even her name suggests the same signifying the true life of a woman.
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